>no friends >khv >fat >socially autistic >live

Yes.

>>never experienced intimacy
>Did I miss out on important life experiences?
You answered your own question

>>18113851
>>18113855

Is it too late for me? I'm almost done with university.
I have no delusions about finding someone to marry and having kids, but it would be nice to have someone to lean on

you did. but none of it will matter when we all die

>>18113859
I Wouldn't let it get you down OP if I were you I would go out, meet new people. Make friends and it will build your confidence and make you much happier

>>18113866
I have no conversation skills, I can't hold a conversation on any topic outside of school or work stuff.
It comes so easy to other people, they can go on and on about lots of things and flow between topics easily.
But when I try to have a conversation, my mind goes blank after a couple sentences and I remain silent, because I legitimately cannot think of ANYTHING to say.

Is there a way to solve this problem?

>>18113875
Travel, experience experiences, create stories for yourself to tell

>>18113875
Take my advice with a pinch of salt, because I'm pretty terrible at making conversation with people I don't know well. A lot of this advice is a little cliche, but important.

It's a lot easier if you have a steady pool of stuff to talk about beforehand. So, try and do things, go places, read books, watch movies etc., and this will give you a bank of experience to draw on in conversation.

Also, in most conversations, if you run out of things to say, focus on prompting the other person to talk about themselves. Which means basically asking questions. People are all narcissists who want to talk about themselves all the time, and the fact we talk about anything other than ourselves is mostly an uneasy compromise. So I tend to find the conversation flows easier if I ask a lot of questions about the other person, especially open questions.

The key to asking questions is always to be seeking to open things up rather than close them off. Start off asking a question about a particular and then move it to asking about a general. Most socially capable people will respond to questions you ask, either by asking the same question to you or by asking a similar question around the same topic. This creates a nice back and forth so you're not always asking questions, but also means you should be careful about asking someone a question that you wouldn't want to answer yourself (so, if you're planning on staying at home over the weekend binge-wanking to weird porn, think twice about asking someone else what their plans are for the weekend)

So basically, two tips: 1) gather resources to make conversation easier (experiences, non-edgy opinions) and 2) asking tonnes of questions is conversation on easy-mode, so use it to your advantage.

Good luck, man. It's tough if it doesn't come naturally to you; I barely ever make people laugh or say anything all that memorable or interesting, but with what I've listed above, you can get through basically any conversation unscathed.

Other than intimacy, no.
And even intimacy should be saved for someone special.

>>18113848
If you really wanted to change things around, go to your local junior college and just sign up for a nutrition class and some fitness classes. Also get a part time of full time job doing something active

You are missing out on a lot by not living healthier. Life is very different when the opposite sex is all over you vs not as interested.

>>18113848
I'm in the same situation. Except fat, thank god.

I moved out of my parent's house once
lost weight, had lots of friends, partied, etc.

I realized life was shit and everyone was shit, so I moved back in with my parents and I never want to do anything ever again
so fuck you and everyone else ITT with
>muh life experiences
they're worthless and don't mean SHIT

>>18115339

A lot of times I had those feelings, I'm pretty sure that the right place for us might be the army.

>>18113848
I didn't start "living" like you describe until I was 17, and I was also fat, socially autistic, lived with my parents.

22 is getting up there, but it's not too late.

Why don't you get a low-end job? Something at a diner would be perfect. Make sure you assert yourself when you get there as a guy that's trying to make some friends, be friendly, and see what your peers are up to after hours.

You'll more than likely get invited to after work parties, and that's really how I got my entire social life started.

But, that was at 17, and by the time I was 19 I was already out of that phase, and went back to being a video game addict. But, I do still have some friends that I hang out with on occasion.