>started talking to a girl
>liked her, asked for a date, agrees, but says just broke up, not ready for a relationship
>we hangout occasionally
>became really close
>really compatible, we both open up
>occasional physical contact, feeling her up and all, still no kiss/sex
>really connect to her, so keep on talking, so long since this happened
>says I'm her best friend, say I don't really do friendships well
>says she keeps on thinking about ex-bf after he texted her
>lose all emotional attraction, still weirdly attached, strongly physically attracted
>stops talking to me all of a sudden, learn she's talking to her ex-bf
>hanging out and drinking
>had way over exaggerated about abuse and all, kind of disappointed
>miss her a lot, make no contact though, feel really fucked up, kind felt lost a really good friend
>feeling all weird
>starts talking to me again due to circumstances
>says she's never getting back with him
>now says I'm the only person she trusts, her best friend
>avoids me again after a couple of weeks
>she's hanging out and talking to her ex-bf again
>tell her this is immature, avoiding and all, I start ignoring
>cut all contact with her
>avoid her even when with mutual friends, still makes personal comments about me
>asks me why I don't talk to her
>tell her she didn't give a fuck about me, and now I don't either
>still tries to talk when I talk to someone
>tries to find excuses to talk to me
>tell her that it is annoying and I need to be left alone
>says okay
I'm confused now. Maybe she can't really move on, but still avoiding all of a sudden even when in the same room is not what best friends do.
Advice?
>>18112793
in my point of view, theres only one thing you can do: call her, ask her out for a coffee or something, and there ask her straight if she wants a relationship or not. if not, forget her.
Well it does kinda look like she only wants to be friends with you, but I don't know many details so I can't be sure
Or she's probably trying to find a replacement to keep her company after breaking up while still interested in getting back with her ex bf