So I kinda need to talk to someone, and this girl I briefly dated and then instead became friends with usually goes for a walk with her dog in the afternoon.
Would it be weird to ask her to join on her walk because I need someone to talk to?
I guess it would depend heavily on the topic.
>>18112512
Well I kinda feel lonely right now and I know she's practically in the same situation as me and have been for even longer, so I just want some advice from her.
Or is it too heavy?
>>18112514
She could take that the wrong way, given your history.
You sure you just want ADVICE from her?
>>18112519
Yeah I'm sure I want actual advice from her. She's 8 years older than me so considerably more experienced as well.
She already made it clear she actually wants to be friends, and while I liked her, I'm not gonna push something that isn't going to happen anyway.
>>18112522
bruh im not the guy you replied to but, she can be 18 years old than you, it doesn't matter - seeking advice from someone of the opposite gender let alone you most probably are lonely AND you've previously been involved with her
recipe for disaster bro, you might get feels because now you got feelings for a friend, and you've established that you two are friends so you'll want it even more
It doesn't matter how old you are, if you're not a psychopath this will get to you.
Its best to take advice from yourself. No one else knows you as well.
>>18112548
Would it really be that bad though? We're getting along pretty well as friends.
>>18112557
It will be REALLY bad, she's the LAST person you want to ask ADVICE from, advice means seeking emotional support, we're human don't forget that. even when we know the solution we all want "advice" from others. Don't fool yourself, but you'll do whatever you want so good luck ;p