So yesterday I got rejected by my crush, she said that she already like someone else but she also said that she trying to get over him since he doesn't like her. So I text her that I'm willing to stay friends but at the same time I still love her. Then she said " we can still be friends but I had to turned your feeling at least for now"
AT LEAST FOR NOW??? What does that even mean? Do I have a second chance or what ??
>>18111172
Slim chance, but probably not. Careful not to become a "Plan B" after she's been rejected by her own crush, you don't any of that shit.
Im not gonna ask you to try to get over her or stop loving her, because I know how hard that is. But, at least try checking out other options I guess?
>>18111172
First of all, don't blame her for not dating a frogposter
Second, stop wasting time chasing someone who doesn't even chase you AT ALL. some single scentence in a chat doesn't mean a thing.
>>18111245
she was already rejected by hers so he's not even like a plan C at this point.
>>18111172
>So I text her that I'm willing to stay friends but at the same time I still love her.
Cuck
>>18111260
lol
I undertand OP though, in these situations it's hard to be rational.
Op here
I probably planning to disconnect her for a while then hit the gym or something so i could change my look and tweet my personality and behavior a bit but I'm gonna still try to get her. I'm crazy for her man.
>>18111285
Tweak*
>>18111172
Going to be real here: The statement 'at least for now' is almost certainly the girl trying to soften the blow and nothing else. Girls are notoriously bad at dealing with conflict - they often don't like hurting feelings or saying what they really mean.
I know what it's like to be on your end of the situation where you're incredibly invested and emotional, and you look for any hope of success, But yeah, objectively it is likely that she is not meaning anything by it.
That said, you could try still going for her. I mean, why not? 20 years from now its not going to be a big deal anyway, and you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
But understand that this entails you giving up ablot if your time and energy for a very much potentially dead end.
Just keep these in mind.