>sexually frustrated, in a long distance relationship >gf

>long distance relationship

Stopped reading there.

>>18110406
Just temporarily, it started as a normal one.

>>18110410
Still though
Sounds like she's getting dicked with or without you

>>18110405

Tell her how you feel. Break it off if she doesn't care.

>>18110416
I can, but how do I go about it so she doesn't feel guilty? She simply isn't as horny as me, not by a longshot. Don't know what we could to to improve this

>>18110560
>Don't know what we could to to improve this

Work it out with her. Relationships aren't always easy. Sometimes you have to have these talks.

>>18110413

How does it? Some people just arent as interested in sex when they're not physically with a person. She might feel embarrassed about talking dirty or sending nude photos. Just because she isn't sending him photos or taking part in sexting, it doesn't mean she's cheating and it's not fair to put that idea in the OP's head.

That said, there is a bit of a problem here and it could easily develop if you don't talk to her about it. Just explain that you feel unfulfilled in that area and you'd much prefer to get off to her, than random photos of girls on the Internet. Make her feel like you really want her and she will probably come out of herself more.

So if it's long distance...I'm assuming she isn't willing while you are finally together....if so that's selfish of her.
I mean men/woman do have sexual needs. That is what causes some people to cheat. Being in a relationship you have to learn to compromises. It may not be what you want to do but there has to be a time you are willing to satisfy your partner's needs or else you'll lose the opportunity to be the one they look for in the end. People eventually get what they want they just choose who to get it from. I'm in the same situation and I'm ready to get my sexual release handled unfortunatly it'll be by another person than the one initially wanted it from

>>18110574
>Just explain that you'd much prefer to get off to her, than random photos of girls on the Internet...

Worked for me, long distance gf slowly got into sending me photos, only of course if i did aswell for her. But she also has normal sex drive.

OP u might be out of luck, but just talk it out.

Maybe she's just not that into sex? Some people are like that. MY girlfriend is specificcally. She's had some traumatic experiences when she was a child that have made her brain associate weird feelings with when she becomes aroused.

The first year we were together it was basically same as what you are describing. When we had sex everything was good, we both got off and felt nice about it, but all other times she didn't seem very sexual.

I would say just try being close to her as a person right now. Not everything is about sex, and honestly sex is a lot better when you connect with the person on a deeper level. Maybe she's not feelin the connection right now?

Also worth noting that sometimes when feel dehumanized when their boyfriends try to make a lot of things sexual. They are afraid that they're being used for their bodies and that they are gonna get hurt. It happens pretty often so most women are naturally worried about it.

I bet if you hold out on sex from your end, after long enough she'll come to you for it.

>>18111253
I feel like explicitly admitting I watch porn will open a whole new can of worms

>>18111271
Well for as long as it's long distance, if I don't mention sex it'll never come up again

>>18112304
Man, sounds like gotta a mess of problems and no nudes is the least among them

>>18112320
Just typical low self esteem gf

>>18112304
Isn't watching porn for men the norm? I'm genuinely surprised when I hear a man doesn't.