I'm 27 years old and have only stuck my penis in 2 girls.

>>18109847
>especially compared to my friends who have fucked dozens of women and have plenty of stories to tell.
I promise you, your friends are making shit up.

Sex is sex. Yes it's different with others(They're different people) but you've been with your girl for 10 years. You can have sex whenever with random girls or escorts, you can't have someone beside you for 10 years, let alone 2 easily.

>>18109847
What you're experiencing is "grass is always greener" syndrome. If you break up with your gf because you feel like you're missing out on fun sex you'll seriously regret it for the rest of your life. Being in a loving, stable relationship is always better than sex with randos.

Also what >>18109853 said, your friends are probably exaggerating.

>>18109847
I bet if your friends were really honest they would be jealous of you and feel like they have been missing out. A ten year relationship is a rare thing these days, and with you looking to better your lives by marriage etc only goes to show that you're happy. You need to shake these feelings anon, life is good and you're not missing out on anything really

You're doing amazing OP

>>18109853
>>18109863

They definitely aren't though because I know the girls they are fucking. One of my friends is a, "Chad", in that he has an attractive face and has had plenty of short term gfs. My other friend doesn't have standards and has gotten plenty of pussy as a result, but nothing really stellar.

Either way they have plenty of stories to tell and when I listen to them talk all I have is a long list of, "could of been", with women.

Now I'm sitting here feeling uncomfortable with my masculinity and thinking of all the opportunities I could of had with women but was too aloof/unconfident at the time to seize the day. I just generally feel like I've missed out.

And it's affecting my masculinity and self-esteem. No matter how I try to rationalize it, a man being with a lot of women is seen as a good thing, even when women claim they hate guys like that.

>>18109854

I do feel good that I've held a relationship together whereas my friends are either too damaged, or date girls that are too damaged, to maintain a healthy relationship. I love my girlfriend and would never throw that away, but these thoughts are very persistent and I still can't help but feel like I've missed out, or that I'm just not manly or something.

>>18109876
>They definitely aren't though because I know the girls they are fucking
You know every single one of the dozens of women they've fucked and you've asked them whether they have slept with your friends?

>>18109876
Imo a guy who has shit together enough to be in a 10 year relationship and on track to afford marriage/house/kids is far more masculine than fuckbois who sleep with tons of girls and can't hold down a stable gf. You're letting our culture of promiscuity get to your head and affect your self-esteem. Remember that the classic "real man" is someone who is the breadwinner, the model father to his children, the loving husband to his wife. In reality you are far, far better off than your friends and in ten years you'll be looking back and shaking your head at this.

Also consider talking to a therapist if this is really getting to you.

>>18109876
>a man being with a lot of women is seen as a good thing, even when women claim they hate guys like that.
????
What the hell. Are you saying you're concerned about women's opinion of your sexual history? You're not trying to pick anyone up, so why do you care? Are you saying you think your girlfriend sees you as less because of it? Your statement is plain wrong anyway.

>>18109882

I know of the girls they've fucked, and most of them are whores, so I have a hard time doubting them really. Also my, "chad", friend has been in plenty of short term relationships with girls I know from high school. It'd honestly be strange if he didn't fuck them.

>>18109891

I think you're right. Society has got my mind turned upside. I know staying with my gf and being loyal is the better path. I just think there's more of a dynamic to it then that.

I was raised by an abusive single mother, so I used to be very unconfident and bad with women. Thing is, girls always found me attractive and there are just dozens of opportunities I had that I passed up because I hated myself.

I've been lifting and have really worked through my self-esteem issues. Now that I'm confident and fit, women's eyes are all over me but there's nothing I can do about it. I'm just really sexually frustrated.

>>18109901
>I'm just really sexually frustrated.

Are you frustrated because your gf doesn't have enough sex with you or because you haven't had sex with that many women? The former is a real problem while the latter you kind of just have to get over it.