well so here's the deal, I'm mid 20's and my gf is in her early 20's and we've been dating for a few months now. and since we started dating she's always gave me a funny feeling about her motives. but I really want it to work out, and I've heard women in their early 20's don't know what they want. she says shes stuck with me, but she always talks about her getting a bunch of likes on IG, she feels like she's not pretty enough, I MAY be a little more attractive than her, but I don't mind, and she generally has self esteem issues and wants me to reassure her on her appearance. just does anybody really have any advice for somebody is my situation? or anybody else been in a similar situation? how did it end? sorry for the rambling, just not sure how to put this
Be careful dude. Insecure and needy girls like her will find a replacement (ex or other beta orbiters) for you if things get tough because they fear loss. I've learned this the hard way by dating 2 insecure girls. This shit gets old fast when they complain that YOU are the problem for them feeling insecure.
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This. I've been there too, have the t-shirt, trying to avoid it next time out. You need to figure out why you want it to work out.
Your funny feeling about motives is huge, listen to it. She's in it for completely different reasons than you.