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Are gay relationships objectively superior (on average) to relationships

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Are gay relationships objectively superior (on average) to relationships with women? And by how much?
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relationships with women are great if you have the balls to lead them
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Gay dudes are sluttier than women, and that's saying something.
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Knowing your way around your own helps you smoke a better pole. But on the real sexuality is fluid af do who feels tight and right m'right?
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>>18106903
Women provide a balance to man's life and you can have an actual future, i.e., kids. 2 men is just sexual perversion.
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>>18106928
In a best-case scenario, it's more about friendship than sex.
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>>18106928
Adoption ?
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>>18106928

It turns out the gays can also have women in their lives and raise children.
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>No pussy
>No soft skin
>Most men are borderline autistic/aren't nurturing
>All men have anger issues
>Men are degenerate whores
>Much smaller pool of potential mates
>Society will think you're gross

Sounds great.
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>>18106903
Relationships only work on the dominate/submissive dichotomy, most men are too attached to their independence to create a good relationship.
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>>18107636
>Relationships only work on the dominate/submissive dichotomy
That's bullshit.
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>>18107640
Divorce rates only started sky-rocketing once women wore the pants; even greek "gay" relationships only worked where one man was the masculine/dominating and the other feminine/submissive.
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>>18107640

It's not really worth arguing with people that have that kind of world view. They don't really understand what a dominant/sub relationship actually looks like.
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>>18107647
It is an extremely superficial way of thinking.

Relationships were both partners are roughly equal (earn roughly the same amount of money, share the chores, take care of the kids) and similar (similar education, similar backgrounds, around the same age, same race) are those which last longer, where people have more sex and where partners are happier.
There are plenty of studies that show this.
I've also personally never seen a relationship where one of the partners was much dominant over the other last happily and long term.

You also make it sound like life was better when women weren't given a choice, when you had to stay with your husband even if he cheated on you, abused you and he treated you like shit because you had no education and no job perspectives.
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>>18106909

>dudes are sluttier than women

fix'd.
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>>18106903
this post triggered homophobes, lel
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It's glorious

No mindgames, no bullshit

Just a best bro you have orgasms with
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>>18108508
Straight dudes will never have as many opportunities to have sex as gays.
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>>18107626
t. roastie
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>>18108520

that doesn't make you less slutty, that just makes you less lucky.

big dif bro.
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>>18108524

yes.
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>>18108520
Not true. Gay guys prefer to have sex with straight guys. If you're a straight guy you could have your pick on Grindr
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>>18106928
fucking retarded, if you need a woman in your life to keep you balanced, than you're fucking hopeless

>>18106903
If you can find the right guy (on the same page, works like a man also, won't sleep around, etc) It's fucking great, sex is constant/always pushing limits, share clothes/food/interests/don't have to wait for a girl to put on makeup or go to the mall or any of the crap most women do, etc. don't have to be as protective, etc. I like it because my boyfriend of 3yrs and I work part time, never went to school and we make enough with labor jobs to afford rent, (labor is also a good workout) buy whatever the fuck we want, go drinking with friends and we go snowboarding and stuff regularly, buying dirtbikes after winter finishes too. Theres a lot of sluts to weed through but I've had girl roomates in the past and I can't fucking imagine living with a girl
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>>18108533

pretty much this. with anything it boils down to the kind of person you're dating, but man with man is easier as long as you focus on the friendship aspect. Sex and romance is important but where most couples fail is they dont actually get along as friends and that isn't really supportable in modern society.
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>>18107664
>we shouldn't have a government, police, or laws because they sometimes got abused

This is how retarded your argument is. Abuse of a privilege or responsibility doesn't make the system itself flawed. The abuser is to blame, not the system.

P.S. Every matriarchy in history failed spectacularly and ceased to exist. Are you retarded enough to believe that was just random chance?
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>>18108526
>women have the same level of awareness as men

You're only fooling yourself.
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>>18108554

porn exists for men. men are the ones running around trying to get laid.

the fact that you could honestly think that women are sluttier is hilarious
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>>18108558
On the other hand, women get to have more actual sex, which I could argue is the reason they don't watch much porn anyway
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>>18108554
See >>18108558. Countless men would do the most degrading, most humiliating things to stick their dick in a warm wet hole. Men plaster graphic compliments and fantasies under pictures of women they will never meet solely because they are horny. Men still spend enough money (!) on porn in 2017 for paid porn membership to be a thing, which says something about just how much they love it.
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>>18108569

on the contrary, they CAN have more sex but often don't, women's sex drive is not nearly as high as men, they need to actually be turned on to get sex, men just have an irrational boner.

just becuase you dont get laid doesn't mean you're not a slut. you're just a bad slut.
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>>18108558
I personally think men are generally hornier (fucking obviously) but actually going out and sleeping around with men is something women do way more, I've been hit on by hundreds of horny guys and only slept with a handful, because it's more risky, I'm only into masculine guys so there goes a huge majority, and if I find a guy I'm into I tend to want to hang on and see if it can work. Meanwhile I've had girl roomates that break it off with their bf and have a guy over the next day, and a different guy every couple days, a (girl) friend of mine seen I liked this straight dude and she goes and fucks him for a week and moves to a different guy, etc. and I have gay friends going on 21 still virgins... I think it's a thing about who wants sex constantly and who just has sex constantly (girls)
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>>18108569
That's not the reason. Women just get turned on from different things than men. I mean sure, mainstream porn doesn't depict virtually anything that actually pleases most women but even all the softcore, feminist porn doesn't work out. Women are a bigger group but after countless attempts from the porn industry to reel them in, the conclusion is simply they don't care to look at sex as much as men.

Even a woman regarded as extremely slutty would have perhaps one partner a month. That still leaves a lot of "dry" time. And obviously once they're in a relationship a man also gets sex - but that doesn't stop men from looking at porn.
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>>18108577

when were talking heteros men try to sleep around more, its women who turn guys down.

guys are also more likely to sleep with someone for the sake of sleeping with someone, women are not.

guys are also more likely to lower their standards just to have sex. women are not.

men are sluttier than women. this isn't even up for debate, its common knowledge.

gays sleep around way more than women too, you're just on the lower end of sluttiness.

tbqh its surprising i dont have an STD at this point with how much sex i have. the only thing i got going is that i tend to have more vanilla sex for the actual acts themselves which makes it harder to catch anything.
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>>18108577
Hate to break it to you mate but you just know some out of control women. The most free-spirited girls I know have racked up a partner count of 20-30 in their mid twenties while they could have slept with literal thousands of men. And that's talking girls who have one night stands and no hang ups about their number.

Women just generally both have a lower sex drive and higher risk. Pregnancy and stigma obviously, but more pressingly if you don't have concern about either of those: that it'll be shit. One night stands are typically just a quick jackhammering for the woman, little foreplay, no oral for them (only for the man), no orgasm. Doesn't make you more enthusiastic to fuck around.
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>>18108583
you're generalizing too much
>>18108586
I'm not going to argue, I'm just saying from my experience, majority of the girls I know will not hesitate if they're attracted to a guy, pregnancy and stigma are hardly a concern with the patch (girls like to be on birth control to regulate their period) straight guys have to try harder unless they're attractive enough. My straight friend finally gave up trying to find a gf because he's short and asian and although hes got a great personality, etc. No girls want to give him a chance, then he finally gave up and banged some tindr girl in 2days. 20-30 is pretty fucking high, and of course, men are genetically wired to ejaculate as much sperm as possible, women are naturally more selective because they need to choose proper mates for potential children. In animals where sperm is more valuable than the egg, females compete over the male. I'm fucking tired but i hope i made a couple points or something, also read the Myth of Monogamy, its great and tales a zoologists perspective on it all
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>>18108623
I'm a woman, I know women get on birth control for their periods, but the consequences of pregnancy are so extreme that you don't need much of a statistical risk to be (subconsciously) worried about the idea. Hell, I can bond with my friends over that "oh god please don't be pregnant" thought that goes through your head when your period is late - even if you have not had sex in a year. Not to be condescending but I seriously think a man cannot 100% understand this "threat" as it's never been a risk/option for them.

>20-30 is pretty fucking high
I agree, but I have been with one guy and I also have (female) friends who are virgins. As I mentioned these are the outliers of everyone female I have ever known, and even they shot down more than nine out of ten guys who aggressively hit on them.
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>>18106903
yes
100x

women are crazy and gross
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>>18108639
isn't that just the culture though? men have a much higher social pressure to lose their virginity and talk about the latest woman theyve fucked (I've been a truck driver and had to hear about how good my coworkers fucked their girls the night before first thing in the morning "oh yeah I made her cum like 7x") as if to impress me, but I know if they were with friends outside of work that would be usual competitive conversation. Therefore its expected among them, even by their parents to go and "find a nice girl" Girls also expect it and hardly need to hit on guys at all because of it, doesnt mean they have less sex or are less horny. As a result women don't have to hit on guys hoping to find the 1 of 10 when they are horny
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>>18108675
>isn't that just the culture though?
no. in this case culture is a reflection of natural biological imperatives and natural behavior, not the other way around
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>>18108675
Sure, culture is encouraging men to get more into sex than they (already) are and discouraging women from being interested in sex. But I feel it's a bit unnatural to act like that's an artificial influence (if you are implying that because men were "made" more horny it doesn't really count). Once you start arguing like that everything becomes fluid because the joy of sexuality is by definition not limited to physical stuff. There's always the thrill of being found attractive by someone else, having intimate power over them, breaking down their exterior etc. I don't really see a significant difference between that and the cultural masculinity affirmation men get from being someone who fucks a lot.
Besides I think in this day and age it's conflicting for women. Obviously there's still a much stronger push for them to be selective and treat sex as a sort of prize for the real quality men, but at the same time there's (especially among liberal, wannabe-hippie college girls) a milder and more diffused pressure to be as quick and dirty about sex as men. Eg women who pride themselves on "separating love and sex" etc.

I'm not saying they have less sex, I think the average straight girl (my age at least) has had slightly more sex than her male counterpart just because she has that much more opportunities. But I also think women turn down men much more often and also much more often keep their number down or abstain from sex altogether because of personal principles.
And what's more - women don't look at porn the way men do, women don't have a significant counterpart to strip clubs, women don't send unsolicited pictures of their vaginas to random men they know from seeing them around the campus, women don't get so thirsty that they will leave comments like "I would wade through a sea of glass to suck a fart out of your ass" with an account featuring a picture of their actual face.

Don't get me wrong, I fucking love how horny men are, but it's pretty obvious.
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>>18108685
Pure ideology.
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>>18108691
Also forgot to add but testosterone also simply increases the sex drive or at least how forceful you experience the sex drive to be. Statistically speaking M/M couples have the most sex and F/F the least. There's even a term for it (lesbian death bed).
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