Haven't been in the dating scene for a solid 3+ years but

>>18106465
>What should I do to be sure I can fuck her when she wants "The D"?
The big problem with people in your situation is that you overthink things, like now. If she's a virgin as well, and she really likes you, she won't mind spending that extra time with you until you're comfortable enough to stop caring.

You may have to indulge your fetishes with her.
Personally, eating pussy gets me solid. It's half the fun.

>>18106488
As stupidly ""feels"" as this is gonna sound, that's just the kind of person I am really, I kinda had to become that way to make myself achieve goals and think about things overly logically so that they sounded simple and made sense in my head. Me trying to find a reason as to why I was never able to fuck those three times and trying to figure out the reason why like its a mystery I need to solve and what can be done about it is just my way (and I guess the wrong way) of coping with it.

So how do I get around that? I'm not sure I can just turn my brain off

>>18106499
I got obscenely lucky having a fetish for fat girls and being set up with literally the prettiest fat girl I've ever encountered - the problem with the fetish is that I like the jiggle and heft of a fat girl, and the only reason she's fat is because she has a thyroid issue, otherwise she'd just look like any thin model you'd see. So I think saying something like "Baby you fat turns me on" or jiggling her around a bit would probably not be a good idea.

And again, I think its more of an issue with my cock having trouble getting erect in the presence/focus of others

>>18106465
Just chill out you'll be fine

>>18106500
Dude you should totally tell her you love the fat, she'll think that's awesome.

>>18106465
There are some places that are legitimate. If someone typed the three-letter abbreviation for the wealthiest country in the world, followed by the word peptide, into a search engine, that person might find one. He might then want something called liquid cial or liquid vitra. Both of which seem to work rather well, though they also cause nasal congestion until they wear off, and it is best to be well informed about side effects in general. Apart from that: l-citrulline 1-2g and l-arginine 2-4g do wonders for blood flow, and some of the horny goat weed combo supplements (like 7 different things e.g. maca etc included) on Amazon work well. And be relaxed. Don't deathgrip or just lay there passively while fapping; move around. Consider jerking off into a condom for practice. Anyway I started getting ED around age 24 lucky me; hopefully this helps.

>>18106465

How old are you?

>>18107621
21, been fapping at least once a day since I discovered my cock

>>18107616
So the Cial and Vitra are in droppers...? How is that administered, just ingested?

>>18108201
Yeah you just measure out an amount equivalent to the usual pill dosage, adjusting depending on how well it works for you. You use a little dropper thing with measurements that is included in the package. I'd recommend the citrulline and arginine too though desu, they help even when combined - can get on Amazon.

>>18108280
>>18108201
Do your research on all these things though. E.g. some ED medications and their side effects have a longer direction of effect than others which can be either useful or annoying depending on your preferences. Ditto arginine is quicker acting but shorter duration than citrulline. And HGW and maca have their own side effects. Try different stuff and see what works. But above all stay relaxed and don't stress about it at the time; stress kills erections.