Hey!
I'm 20 and I need your advice people! Throughout my life, I have always been doing fair in things. My grades in school were fine, my parents were always satisfied, I did good in track and field, my coach was always satisfied, I got my drivers license on my first try and I succeeded in pretty much everything.
Now that I'm an adult, I can't bear criticism and someone being disappointed in me. Like if I fail to do something, sometimes as simple as showing up on time and the person waiting on me gets mad, I can get pretty emotional. To the point where I cry.
What do pls help
Bonus problem: I can't pee with people around. I have been living in dorms for 3 years now. It was totally fine the first 2 years - I could pee in an urinal even if someone was right next to me, but now I can't get myself to pee even if there is another person in the rest room. Even if he is at sink away from my sight or something.
What do pls help
>>18106188
About your problem, I think you'd read this: http://www.inoveryourhead.net/2011/04/25/the-complete-guide-to-not-giving-a-fuck/
Alternatively, it's something that's getting better with time, you'd get used to it the more you expose yourself.
>>18106220
Thanks, gonna read it!
I agree with what you said about exposing myself more often to these things. Any idea how to get more negative (and rude) feedback?
I'm the same way, anon. The second my boss tells me he needs to have a talk with me, the waterworks start.
I think I got it from my mom. She's 50 and does the very same thing.
>>18106232
>Any idea how to get more negative (and rude) feedback?
It has to come from unexpected directions though. If you're purposely looking for it it'll have a different impact than you intended.
Just keep doing what you've been doing, the more things you do, he more the unexpected happen, so much is life.