Alright, so quick story
>Shy but cute girl in my class
>Need date to a dance I am invited to
>Ask her a little awkwardly because my friends egged me on, she agrees and has me put my number in her phone
>A day or two later she finally texts me asking when the dance is
>I tell her and she says she is so sorry because she can't go because she has some retreat or whatever on that day
I am still interested in getting to know her, and I don't know if she just lied and didn't want to go with me. Should I tell her that I'd still like to get to know her?
>>18105637
abandon. If a girl is ever remotely interested in a guy, she's try to make it so that she spends time with you. Universal advice here, if she's giving excuses, ANY excuses, she's not interested. It's really easy.
>>18105644
Well, I mean she has a set plan that's already a month in advance. She also did want my number, and when I say she's shy I mean it. She doesn't even know me anyway
>>18105648
>a month in advance
>a month
Just more time to give her a reason to cancel or make up an excuse.
>>18105655
Again, why would she cancel plans for a complete stranger? I know I'm no Chad but I am attractive
>>18105648
nah man, if a girl likes a guy and had a plan to go somewhere with him, she CANCELS the other shit, let me tell ya.
She knew full well the dance was coming.
>>18105637
My only question is, why did you not tell her when the dance was while you were asking her to go with you?
>>18105663
She didn't, this is private ball affair thing that I was invited to, not her. Maybe if she got to know me she'd cancel?
>>18105665
I did, vaguely. I didn't say the exact date because I was planning on saying it the next day or whatever