How does /adv/ deal with obsessive exes? Me and my gf of 2 years split mutually yesterday evening. But she calls me at like ten last night screaming and crying for me to take her back. Her mother even came in to stop her episode. I had to hang up in the middle of it. I felt like an asshole for it. How do I tell her to move on? Or is it even my place to tell her?
block her. she doesn't want or need anything you can give her anymore.
It's the insisting that she does is the issue. She claims to be an emotional wreck without me. Is negligence the answer?
Damn, that sounds really hard to deal with but it's certainly not unusual. Maybe before blocking her explain that you're doing that because she's clearly unstable and will need to clear her head before you two can talk again
Well you're the person in question so I'd say yeah, it is your place to tell her.
I mean in the sense that hearing it from me might just make her feel worse. I just don't know if getting over it is something she needs to accomplish on her own