I really don't like people. I have a super abrasive personality,

>>18104655

You may have aspergers.

>I like to talking about ethics and philosophy
>how do I socialise

Nigga u dumb

>>18104661
Had it tested in the past multiple times, I don't. I don't fall on the autism spectrum. I am a straight up to the book INTJ-I personality though. Just don't like people, they tend not to be logical or able to keep up when I start brainstorming on things.

I'm just an elitist prick, or come across that way at least, either way, result's the same. People don't like me, I tend not to like them because they don't like me.

>>18104663
not 'how do i socialize?', more 'do I subject people to myself?' I genuinly don't think i'm a good person to be around, so my life is mostly solitary.

>>18104672

Stop being so fucking uptight about your logic and shit. I have certain beliefs but I relax them around others, because nobody wants to hear some pisswank talk shit all night about his strict adherence.

Play dumb, have fun.

>>18104832
I'm the kind of person who will try to reinvent the wheel nonstop doing day to day activities, figuring out why things are the way they are. I consider the 'analytical to a fault' a key component to my character, for better or worse. It's a form of catharsis for me, not something to be dropped for the sake of it. And I don't think I could ever abandon that for anything really, it defines my concept of myself.

That's where the problem lies. I take pride in what is arguably my biggest character fault. I'm not stupid, I'm aware it's fucking annoying to people, and that's my issue.

>>18104655

To me it doesn't sound like you actually enjoy being alone, sounds like you tell yourself that just to deal with the fact that you cannot socialize with other people.

Be honest with yourself, find people similar to you and learn how to stop being a cunt around them.

>>18104655
OP are you me? except im 28 and believe my reclusive asshole-ness has wound me up in more trouble than it has you

>>18104852
Enjoy is a strong word, and I'd rather not spend my time alone. I just really don't like people. There really is no insecurity about it. I've had functional friendships, relationships, and can hold a conversation just fine, so long as the topics are relevant and my partner shows interest. I've been burned in the past, and over time I just realized that the way I operate and think doesn't work well with the way most people do. I interact with someone, they don't like me over a belief or statement, I feel emotional pain over it, I stop associating people with good feelings. Antisocial behavior is a coping mechanism, not an excuse. I don't make excuses. If I'm a sack of shit, I'm a sack of shit, end of story.

Interaction isn't a problem. Denial is the farthest from the truth. I'm looking for a solution, not a diagnosis. I have an extremely antisocial personality, it's causing problems. Fast on my way to mental illness if I don't fix whatever there is to be fixed.

Logically, my solution is to give my subconscious mind solid proof people won't cause hurt, encouraging the search of pleasant company. However, I'm just an unlikable cunt, so that's not exactly something I can readily do.

I just wrote three paragraphs detailing why you're wrong. This is the shit I'm talking about, nobody actually enjoys having their statements dismantled. It's a perfect storm. I'm unlikable, I don't like people cause reasons, I need people to prove me wrong, but I am an asshole to said people. It's a bullshit loop.

>>18104655
Fellow INTJ here, you need to chill. Adopt 'the fool' persona/masks to make yourself not care about those.

Or just go full dark triad machiavelli.

>>18104655
Stop being such an autist, being around other people isn't about being logical or trying to push on others what you think about yourself. If you don't want to be a lonely virgin your entire life go out and put the effort into being around other people. Alternatively you could try killing yourself.