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Haven't been here for a while, but i would like a simple explanation by third side to what is happening in my life and if I am right to think like this.
BAsically
>had a beautiful family for 6 years
>mom divorces with dad when i was 6(brother was 2 at the time)
>mom has not been in my life for 15 years
A quick rewind to 1st grade, I didn't even recognise her when she came to school.
>never sent money, nor was interested in my life
>always asked only how are the grades in school and thats is
>kept basic contact by calling twice a year for 15 mins
>after that came facebook and she stalked us
>kept being obssesive (still is)
>never was there when needed (cuz of work/boyfriend etc.)
Back to present
>came on a holiday to her place (another country)
>ended up staying with her
>for almost a year i have been abused mentally
Just to mention that I live better than before besides this, I am independent finally, and I did it on my own.
>always blames me for everything
>never showed mother-daughter-love
Cherry on top
>had a bf for two months(me)
>ended up breaking up
>she talked bad of him
>still they talked a lot at work
>today she told me that he told her he wants to fuck her
>suppose she didn't tell me cuz i was going to be hurt
>she is basic liar for everything
>+whore (desu i feel bad for my dad tho)
Questions: How do I treat her? What do I do at all with her? I don't feel her as mom, nor as a friend. I want to go away quickly and as far as possible. Is it okay? Am I right to feel this way.
I tried to be the good daughter even though she abandoned me an my bro at a young age. I believe she doesn't want to be a mom to me or him.
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>>18100837
It sounds as though your mom is only interested in you as long as it reflects good on her.
Does your mother have some-or-all of these traits:
• Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from others
•Fixated on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
• Self-perception of being unique, superior and associated with high-status people and institutions
• Needing constant admiration from others
• Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
• Exploitative of others to achieve personal gain
• Unwilling to empathize with others' feelings, wishes, or needs
• Intensely envious of others and the belief that others are equally envious of them
• Pompous and arrogant demeanour
If yes then look up this page:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder
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>>18100858
OP here.
She has 5/9. But I think everybody has these at some point of their life. She is all grown up woman, (41 at age) behaving like a small child. Not willing to take responsibilities to anything almost. Very greedy of money. She asked me to give her back 6 euros for a packet of cigarettes. Wtf, rly. I spent 3000 euro for a small amount of time when I was at college(it was short and it was bills mostly) and my dad didn't ask for a cent. Am I crazy or this is not normal.
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