My gf lives 3 hours away so we only see each other on weekends. We usually alternate who drives to see who, but lately I've had to do most of the driving because she has wrecked her car twice since we've started dating.
Last weekend she tried to swallow an entire bottle of anti-anxiety pills in front of me and I had to physically restrain her until she calmed down, and I basically spent the entire weekend comforting her in her room worrying about if she was going to hurt herself when I left.
Last night my friends invited me to stuff but I had to tell them no because I need to drive up to see my gf... but just now I really didn't feel like driving and called to tell her that I want to spend this weekend in town with my friends. She got upset, told me she didn't even hear anything I said after I said I wasn't going to go see her, and then she hung up on me.
Am I in a toxic relationship?
Was the pill-popping unexpected? If yes, maybe not. If no, yes.
If all you said was that she was popping pills then yes, you are in a toxic relationship.
Alongside everything else, absolutely.
I know your 'compassion' prevents you from ending it, because that's where we've all been at one point or another. But you know that you will have to end it sooner or later, and you're better off doing it soon.
Otherwise enjoy having the life sucked out of you. You can't fix everyone, dude. No matter how hard you try.
>>18100731
>Am I in a toxic relationship?
Yes, dumdum, of course you are. She's fucking insane. The only relationship she should have right now is with a psychiatrist.