Thought I'd post this here for any of the anons who were helping me earlier. I need you all again.
It's me again, I talked ti my gf about it. I was stern and clear, she said okay, I wont do it. But she was defensive about it all, I didn't know ehat ti say after that, ahe juat said nothing was going to happen, it's not like that between us.
Then she gave me the "you don't trust me" "do you really think i'd do that spiel". What do I do? I feel like I'm in a deeper hole
arrange a 3some
>>18098863
No thanks, but thank you for your /adv/
>>18098860
>I feel like I'm in a deeper hole
not hers tho
BOOM
No but seriously, if they were both naked, he's not gay.
And way to be a vague ass faggot in the post. Maybe you should try sitting on his lap, see how you feel.
If they weren't naked, then it's all chill and you can just explain to her that he's still a guy, and it provoked some innate reaction.
>>18098868
They were clothed, sorry I guess It's hard to really flesh out a story in a post.
Like I said, I spoke to her about it but she just turned it into my insecurities being the issue.
>>18098860
>"you don't trust me"
I'd tell her she's right and dare her to prove me wrong. She's challenging you OP,don't be afraid of 'digging a hole'
She's not valuable Y O U are and right now she's messing around in a way that could hurt Y O U.
>>18098883
Totally didn't realise I said this in the original post.
We've been together for 7 years and my friend I've known for almost 10.
I don't want ti risk what we have, I want to marry this girl, start a family with her, y'know?
>>18098886
> I want to marry this girl, start a family with her,
>I want to marry a girl who has me wondering and can't wipe away the idea that she's cheating on me
That's your decision so you know just: 'kay.
>>18098902
Is that on me though?
Sometimes I feel maybe I am blowing things oit if proportion, maybe it's just my insecurities getting the best of me.