What is the optimal way to lose your virginity? I don't want to regret losing my virginity to the wrong person or at the wrong time/place.
I've been advised before to get a trusted friend to do it for me. Is that something I should seriously consider? How do you even break the ice to ask for such a favour?
I'll wait until I'm in a serious relationship if I can but given my situation that might never happen.
Disclaimer: I know it's not a race and I'm trying to be careful, but I'm in my late twenties and don't want to wait until I'm 40 or 50.
What do you mean, 'optimal way'? That entirely depends on what you want
fast and loose
make your first time mediocre and unfulfilling so you get right back on the fucktrain
I imagine a very awkward conversation following such a request.
My honest advice would be to hire a prostitute. Take a trip to a place where it's legal and get it legitimately to avoid any moral quandaries.
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If I lose it to some party stud I'm going to regret "throwing it away" and also people will think I am a slut. So that would be a very bad way to lose my virginity.'
If I wait until marriage I'll have no regrets but it will also reduce my chances of ever marrying or losing my virginity.