>meet a qt in class
>think she's into me
>sideward glances, body language, etc
>approach her, start talking during & outside of class
>she's friendly and still seems interest in me
>start texting her after a long period of no classes
>ask her out for coffee because I don't have anything to do
>she rejects
>suddenly grows cold and distant next time i see her
The fuck? Where did I go wrong? I know asking a girl out over text is usually a no-no, but it would've been at least a week before I saw her in person again.
Did she think I was gay or something? What made her lose interest, if she ever even had it?
>suddenly grows cold and distant
In what way? Does she share daily details with you yet? If not, something could have happened that she wouldn't normally share with acquaintances and she's just not in the mood right now.
>>18092125
Do you know if she has a boyfriend? or maybe she just likes someone else
>>18092125
>gurl
>has complex mind
>no talk to meh
>not understand her
You can really only assume what you did wrong here but she knows the answer and you could talk to her about it, seems like she wants her good share of distance though.
Probably into someone else.
>>18092134
That's what I thought. But a few classes later and she still acts the same.
>>18092136
Possible. But why wouldn't she say so instead of just suddenly cutting off?
>>18092140
Girls like the attention
You probably misinterpreted her signals and she didn't like you. She rejected you.
>>18092139
>Go talk to her
>After she's given various signals that she doesn't want to talk
Again, of she was into someone else, why would that warrant cutting off all contact?
>>18092143
Weird way to get it. I've pretty much reflected all of what she's given me.
>>18092147
Also possible. But again, why would that warrant cutting off all contact? I'm fine with the "friendzone," not like I was desperately in love with her anyway. I just thought she was cute and interesting.
>>18092125
You misjudged. She might have just wanted to be friends. It happens
>>18092156
Say friendzone again and I'll castrate you. She just wasn't interested.
>>18092185
>>18092188
The question srands
>>18092125
Ask her. It sounds like she was being friendly and now feels like she has to reinforce boundaries so that you don't get the wrong idea. Just tell her, "Hey, if you don't want to date me, that's fine. I would like to date you, just to be clear. But declining my invitation and then acting in a way that seems very cold to me tells me that you don't feel the same way. Is that what you are trying to tell me?"
>>18092236
Seems like the best option. I could tear my hair out over thinking this.
Thanks, anon.
>>18092125
Yo, sounds like she ain't really worth your time. Like if someone fucking asked me out to coffee, I'd still go even if I wasn't that interested because it's fun getting to know more people. Just ask her about it, it's better than thinking about it forever and getting no where.