One of my closest friends from high school cheated on her fiance.

I think it depends on the time frame, did this happen at the beginning of the relationship or more recently ?

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>>18091701
it may surface in time, but how did you learn of this? If there is a date for the wedding give her an ultimatum to tell him or you'll tell him. If people use sex (something sacred) for their own selfish wants, they won't sacrifice in marriage (even more sacred) because they've been acting according to their wants before the good of the other. It wouldn't be wrong to confront her, but it would be advisable to pressure her to to tell him. If she refuses, I'd recommend telling him. Better a fight now then 5 years from now AFTER they've gotten married and AFTER they've had 4 kids. There are too many broken marriages. (Mainly because people don't treat anything sacred these days, why should marriage be of any value) Really makes my neck vein burst

>>18091708
More recently. I would feel the same way regardless of the time frame though.

>>18091712
She told me. There isn't a date yet so in all honestly I'm hoping the issue will resolve itself but it's been a while now and it seems less and less likely that will happen. She knows I disapprove and I've told her that she needs to either tell him or break up with him (which she seemed to agree with at the time), but things have drifted back to the way they were. Maybe I need to press the issue, but our friendship has definitely changed since we initially spoke about it so I don't really know where to go from here.

>>18091701
its probably better just to go straight to the guy. it will look very bad on your behalf if it turns out you knew and were to cowardly to tell. it could even look like you were part or at least complacent in it, which will damage what people think of you
how would you feel if it happened to you?

its best to be hoist in these situations. honesty is the foundations of a relationship. its called cheating for a reason

How much do you know/like the guy?
Who besides you knows about this?
Why do you know about this?

>>18091701
Tell him. If you were about to marry a cheater wouldn't you like to know? It's much easier to cancel a wedding than to divorce.

>>18091701
>that bottom left one
its funny because capybaras are rodents