Do people who give good relationship advice tend to have better relationships? Or have they learned through so much failure?
>>18089971
id bet that 90%+ learn via trial and error
>>18089971
I'd say the only stuff i can really give advice on and be sure it's probably in the right direction is something that i have personally dealt with or had problems with.
I often feel like a lot of people speculate what might be the case and tend to give advice, which is okay to an extend too if is part of a common sense.
>>18089971
The latter in my experience.
People who are regularly having healthy relationships don't really have any need to devote energy to what makes a relationship work or fail. You don't ask questions when things are going swell.
>>18089971
Probably not.
People that have it going well without any problems will just tell you to "b urself" because that's what their experience was like.
Meanwhile, people that face problems through their attempts will have to think on what works and why didn't it work. I'd say people with many problems have more experience dealing with them and will not tell you that just "beeing yourself" is the answer.
Depends on what they're giving advice on, but generally someone who has a good relationship can give better advice than someone who has only had bad experiences, and definitely better than someone who has had no experiences