>friend's birthday
>No invite, but that's okay
>Mutual friend that's going invites me
>say "I'll try to make it" despite probably not going to attend because it's weird to go to a birthday party that you weren't invited to
>Birthday comes around, mutual friend that invited me says "hey anon, why couldn't you make it out on Saturday?! It was so much fun"
>Tell her that I had to help my mom with her perogy business/some other reason
This has happened 3 times already since I met them and now I'm pretty sure that they think I'm avoiding them.
Am i overthinking it? Should I just go to the birthday party despite not being invited by the person whose birthday it is?
HOw were they inviting people? If it was word of mouth, then go. If it was through Facebook, then don't go
Nigga please. I always rocked up to parties without an invite(friends of friends I wasn't just gate-crashing) it become expected for me to be there without an invite. If your not in their immediate friends group, like hang out with them regularly the thought to invite you probably never crosses their mind.