>have first gf for almost 3 years
>break up
>feel as though feels for her will ruin any other relationship i have
does this actually happen or am i paranoid? i mean its been awhile and i still feel like it holds me back.
does it ever go away?
>>18088216
That feeling is normal. Everyone has it. It passes with time. It wont because I told you, still going to pop up.. But i can at least give you that grounding thought.
Hey, man.. I have an elective education in psych. As in not an expert but i know some shit so trust me.
Get yourself some advil. Long story short your feelings are caused by chemical imbalances thats basically like heroine withdrawal. Humans pair bond. Its addiction to a person.
The chems fuckin with you right now are counteracted by advil. It wont cure you or make you feel amazing but it will take the edge off.
Id also strongly recommend lots of physical activity and time with friends.
>>18088224
>physical activity
is this why i always start thinking about it when i miss a few days at the gym? thanks for the advil advice too!
im happy to hear that it passes with time. if i had this holding me back from love forever, id doubt id find life worth living