I'm a homo and keep getting feels because no bf, it's driving me crazy.
Issue is, I really don't want a bf. I'm not emotionally equipped for that shit. I'm 8 million trust issues deep, and I'm not breaking that stuff. I also don't actually like casual hookups, in fact, I'd rather not have fuck all in the way of personal relationships.
But my physiology and hormones have different ideas.
What do I do about this? I'm tired of the feels cycle.
get a bf.
if you are gay it should be easy to hook up with someone.
i always figured guys turned gay because they are SOOO horny they had to be with someone as horny as them so they could fuck at any moment. Maybe I just watch too much porn?
>>18087499
I'm pretty sure that would actually drive me more crazy.
>>18087495
Try a relationship or find ways to get over the sad.
Heads up tho. Trying to get over the sad alone is why most gays kill themselves.
>>18087503
k. good luck
>>18087506
Man I have so many trust issues, I would not be stable in a relationship. It would do bad things to me. I don't like hooking up, at some level I want the intimacy and closeness of a relationship... but yeah it would unearth my inner crazy.
I don't enjoy just randomly hooking up with guys, it doesn't satisfy me that much.
>>18087502
Some are, you have some vapid sluts but eh, they're far and few.
>I want but I can't but I need but I'm not emotionally stable because I cry because I don't want to have what I want
See, that's why faggot is an offense
>>18087523
Oh no I'm not crying about it buddy, it's more like, yearning? Wanting? I don't know, not really crying though. And the trust issues aren't a part of the homo thing.
>>18087527
You want emotional support and sex, but you don't want a bf or casual hookups
That's way more faggot than getting fuck'd in the ass
>>18087534
Yeah I guess, it's just a hormone thing I think. This comes and goes.
Ok ok, so if I ever did decide to try and combat my mountain of mental health hangups, where should I even start? Should I just go ahead and jump straight into therapy?