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>Meet cute girl in class (college) >She seems interested

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>Meet cute girl in class (college)
>She seems interested
>Hang out for about half hour or 45 minutes
>Talk here and there through out the week
Fast forward about a week
>Decide to ask her out for Friday or Saturday night since she's at school Monday through Thursday
>Go talk to her
>"Heya - what days do you work?
>"Friday, Saturday, and Sunday... ten hour days"
>Wasn'tExpectingThat.jpg
>Tell her "I know you're busy a lot but I'd like to hang out sometime"
>Give her my number
>Bad hand writing
>She clarifies what numbers are what
>Thought maybe we could figure out over text

It's been about 3-4 days and I haven't gotten a text (did see her yesterday and we talked for a couple minutes) , here's what I need advice on

1) Was it obvious that I was showing interest?

2) Should I just go ahead and ask her out for specific date on Friday or Saturday, or is that too much considering I just gave her my number?
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But she's not available on Friday or Saturday.

Next time set a date and if she says she can't make it, ask when she is available. If she gives you an excuse then move on to someone else
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>>18084287
She's just as available during the other days is the thing, we're both STEM majors so we spend a lot of time in school. I see her here and there from about 8 in the morning (when we have class) til 9 at night
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>>18084244
>It's been about 3-4 days and I haven't gotten a text
Well she did just tell you she was busy over the weekend
>1) Was it obvious that I was showing interest?
I don't know, I wasn't there, but probably
>2) Should I just go ahead and ask her out for specific date on Friday or Saturday, or is that too much considering I just gave her my number?
Ask her out for coffee between classes and see where it goes from there. She's busy over the weekend so I don't know why you'd think asking her out for Friday or Saturday is a good idea
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>>18084571
>Ask her out for coffee between classes and see where it goes from there. She's busy over the weekend so I don't know why you'd think asking her out for Friday or Saturday is a good idea

Thanks for the reply, but see the post above you
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>>18084571
>>It's been about 3-4 days and I haven't gotten a text
>Well she did just tell you she was busy over the weekend

And yeah - it's not that I'm worried about her not texting me, I just don't want to overdo it or seem overwhelming by asking her out
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>>18084576
That's where the between classes bit comes in. If she's just too busy though, your efforts are better expended elsewhere. She's got enough going on, she just might not have time for dating and a relationship.
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>>18084244
Well, you can expect that either she's really not all that into you, or she thinks that she needs to play the "don't act too interested" game.

Either one isn't a good sign.

I wouldn't worry about this because there's no point -- worrying won't accomplish anything useful. If she's interested she'll probably let you know, and if she's interested and doesn't, you're better off without someone who plays games or is crap at communication.

So be friendly and civil when you see her, but otherwise continue to live your life and look for opportunities with other women.
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