A female friend of mine, I'm a guy, has evaded my questions of hanging out together for the past 3 days. She does answer my normal chats, a simple conversation. But as soon as I ask her if she is free, she does not respond, until I say something else.
We get along pretty well, so this is strange.
Only yesterday she mentioned that she had trouble with the people around her, but she specified "today".
I want to ask her why is she ignoring me, but I don't want to appear kinda annoying for asking. Specially if the reason has been the same all these 3 days.
How should I ask her about it?
Is it okay?:
- Hey, these days you've been evading me when I ask you to hang out. Strange coming form you.
She isn't attracted to you and doesn't want to lead you on. If you want to date her, this is your signal to move on. Otherwise, if you just want to be friends, just keep chatting with her and don't ask her to hang out unless it's very obvious you don't want to date her.
>>18083678
i agree with this. if she's genuinely / definitively interested in you she probably would have already accepted in a heartbeat
or that she just have her personal problems to deal with and isn't ready for relationships. either way, i think you should move on
>>18083678
Thirding this.
>inb4 why can't she just be honest and tell me to my face
Because it's a very confrontational thing to do, plus it's very presumptuous if you haven't actually made a move on her