A few weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me. Everything was going perfectly fine our love for each other felt so strong and then overnight she decided to start treating me like shit and it led to us having a talk and breaking up. She gave me every different cliché excuse in the book. Im about 99% sure she cheated on me. I am resigned to the fact that it's over. The problem is I've gone into a horrible spell of depression and anxiety. All I have in my mind is the image of her having sex with someone else. Is that normal? I also feel hopeless in terms of finding someone again or even sleeping with someone again. I need advice on how to get over this.
Also to add, I consider myself a fairly decent looking guy. A little overweight but not an eye sore. The problem is I don't drink or do any drugs so I feel like it's impossible to go out and meet women when I'm ready to start doing this again. Any tips or suggestions?
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>The problem is I've gone into a horrible spell of depression and anxiety
>All I have in my mind is the image of her having sex with someone else.
I actually got cheated on and yes that's what heartbreak does to you. I couldn't fap for like three weeks straight. After that I could do it again, but even porn titles like "cheating wife" made my eyes water and my heart bleed. My heart dropped and I started shaking lightly everytime I saw a woman with long black hair like hers. Was constantly afraid to run into her. Went on walks at night to cry my eyes out, talk really loud to myself, hug trees and have silent fits of rage. My head was filled with thoughts of her and what she did. That stuff stopped after like 2.5 to 3 months. From there on it went into some kind of depression for 4 to 5 months. Actually felt good about myself again after like 9 to 10 months.
Hope your broke off all contact and have friends and family to talk to.