This question is for the guys. Womenz would not understand.
My current gf is def cute in her own way, has a great ass, and is good at sex, so she has things going for her. She's also very loving and loyal.
But the problem is my ex was sexier to me, and I think/know that I could do better physically. speaking. I got that lustful/longing feeling with my ex but don't get it with my current gf, unless I'm looking at her ass.
Do you think that I'm settling? Have you ever been in a similar situation, and did you leave or stay? Regret or glad?
Thx in advance
>>18083115
Women in general are way more driven by superficialities like appearance than men are.
It sounds like you feel like you're settling. That's too bad for your girlfriend. If what you actually care about is the physical appearance of the person you're having sex with, then I think you absolutely should leave.
To me, sex and sexual attraction are a binder for a relationship -- if that part isn't working, the relationship can fall apart, but it's not the main substance that makes a relationship work or desirable. There's only so much you can have sex with someone, even if it's really enjoyable sex.
What's really important to me in a girlfriend is that I want to be around her when we're not having sex.
>>18083161
I'm with you on 80% of your post, but I think the last bit might be unrealistic. I don't even know a female, let alone a gf, that I want to be around when we're not having sex. Unless I found a girlfriend that just wanted to play Overwatch and lounge around the house all day, which is unlikely to ever happen.
I'm going to assume that you mean that when you are around her everything is chill and you're not unhappy. Because that I can handle.