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>friends with girl
>catch the feels
>she already has a boyfriend
>don't think they are very serious but not sure
How do I tell her that I would be open to a romantic relationship without being too forward while also not damaging our friendship?
Should I try to find out how serious they are? She almost never even mentions him so it would feel like prying to just start asking about him out of the blue and I have never met the guy. Or would it just be better say nothing and try to find someone else?
Note that I want an actual long term relationship and not just sex.
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>>18082928
You could always ask something like "You never talk about your boyfriend. How's that going?"
My general feeling is that pursuing a girl who has a boyfriend is a waste of time.
You can't control her response. If you really want to try something with her, you're just going to have to suck it up and let things turn out how they will.
When you do this, you are inherently showing a lot of disrespect to her existing relationship. If she's ok with that, or actually decides to go out with you instead, you are going to have to be concerned about any other friendship she has with a guy. If she's not, it's almost certain to damage the friendship.
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>>18082928
since you caught the feels this girl is not your friend but your romantic interest so if you do not state your intention you are not being honest about why you hang with a girl with a bf. You tell her and let her decide if she wants to ditch the bf or you.
Having said that if she ditches her bf because she caught feels with her guy friend you must ask your self why she continued to seek other men when professing to be in a relationship. She will do the same with you.
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