>gf lives 3 hours away
>thinking about breaking up to save money because she insists on us seeing each other every weekend, and she's obese (although I've gotten her to go to the gym to lose weight, I go with her when I can)
>she gets into a car accident (rear-ends someone) and panics so I decide to be a good boyfriend and support her, I don't tell her about wanting to break up
>less than a week later, she rear-ends someone else again (just now)
>calls me from the ambulance sobbing, pleads with me to leave to come see her right now
>couldn't figure out her exact condition through her tears and pleading for me to see her, she only got off the phone with me to talk to her mom
I guess I pretty much have to go take care of her still, huh?
>>18080922
you don't have to if you don't want a girlfirend anymore.
>>18080922
Do you even like her? Just break up with her.
Just make it your last trip up there. Explain that you came because you were worried/care but that it's also time to talk.