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Hey /adv/. I need advice on what to do with this. And it would also be great if someone can tell me what this is, or what's wrong with me.
I'm a very straightforward person, usually, while my boyfriend is not. Sometimes he says confusing things, like "I don't mind if you do this," but then he starts saying other things after like, "We could be spending time together" or "I'm just gonna play games alone" so passive-aggressively.
This confuses my head A LOT, and it frustrates me to the point where I have a hard time breathing, I start to cry untrollably, my hands get shaky, and I end up banging my fist on my desk hard enough to bruise them.
What the fuck is wrong with me and how do I control this? I'm scaring my boyfriend away and I feel bad.
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>>18080854
Well, first of all, your boyfriend shouldn't resort to passive aggressive behavior to get you to spend time with him. That shit ain't cool.
Secondly, there definitely isn't anything wrong with saying what you mean.
You sound frustrated, which is justified, but your reaction may be unusually intense? Maybe talk to him about how his actions make you feel? I'm just spitballin' here, anon.
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>>18080854
well first, tell ur bf to stop being a little bitch, stop being passive aggressive, and to tell you what his real feelings are.
if you can't tell him because you would feel bad for doing that, then you need to stop being a little bitch too.
if he's not able to do this, you can at least make yourself become attuned to his passive-aggresive remarks since it seems pretty easy to tell what his real feelings are.
i.e. "I'm just gonna play games alone" - he's resentful that you aren't spending time with him
I don't see how this situation would be confusing, he seems like a fickle person so probably best to accept that he might change his mind on a dime
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