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I don't know where to go with my life. I'm 19 years old and I'm currently only working a part time job living with my parents. I am planning on moving into a flat with 2 of my friends (they're already in a flat together) once I get a full time job. However I do not think it would fullfill me. No matter what I did so far, in school, dating, sports, etc I was not fulfilled at all. I don't know what's wrong with me but I feel like I have a something in the back of my mind constantly reminding me how pointless these things are. I'm starting to think that I'm not compatible for a normal way or life that I thought I wanted. I feel like this is only going to get worse once I have to work for most of the hours of my life and spend the rest of the time feeling anxious or sleeping. What should I do? Is it just because I'm young? This sounds convoluted and dumb, I can't really put it into words well.
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just chill yo. all ya gotta do in life is just let time pass and take a deep breath and give it your best.
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>>18076801
I've tried to just be chill about everything but I can never keep it up. It doesn't feel natural to me, like I'm forcing it. I'm not even sure what my personality is.
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>>18076806
I'm going through a similar struggle, only with no mates to move in with
Either take that chance or rot in the streets because your parents most certainly will not be there forever, and I'm not talking about when they die
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>>18076768
Picture yourself living the life you'd like to have at age 30. What does it look like? Are you married or single? In house or apartment? What sort of job - office, store, factory, other? What hobbies? What sort of vacations? Et. Paint it as fully as you can.
Now, what would have to happen between now and then for that to happen? College, trade school, work your way up on the job? Move or stay where you are? Meet new people? Develop new skills?
Now look at the journey you just took backwards, from there to here, and look at it forwards. Starting here and now, what would be the first step on the road?
Take it.
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