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Hi. 26, KV, recently decided I should probably try dating. Installed Tinder though I haven't finished setting up an account or started swiping yet.
I'm running into an issue though, or maybe it's not an issue, I don't know. I read somewhere that you should always jerk off before you do anything dating wise so you don't make any overly thirsty moves (kinda like how you shouldn't go food shopping on an empty stomach).
But after I jerk off, I find myself with zero interest in pursuing dating. I've already come, after all, so why would I want to do this difficult thing?
Is this an issue? Should I force myself to do dating even if I only feel the desire to when I haven't masturbated in a while?
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>>18076259
It's also to prevent precum.
That said, you should try to have the first date be something that you would enjoy even if it weren't a date per say (bowling or something).
Once you've gone on three or so dates with the same person, if they're still into you and vice versa, it doesn't really seem as much of an effort.
(presuming you're not just looking for a lay)At that point you're sort of exploring how things are different with that person as opposed to alone, and that's a lot more fun than it sounds.
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>>18076259
Busting a nut will only cover the real problem, which seems to be you not being able to keep your cool. Just relax, breath. You'll be fine
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>>18076385
I think the issue is that I am kinda just looking for a lay; I want to try having sex, I'm not so interested in the long term companionship/co-habiting, etc.
But if I wank beforehand, I lose interest. Without that immediate desire it seems like a lot of effort.
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