Is it worth it to date someone much older than you, who has no kids or other family, and will most likely die within the next 10 years?
It might sound off but I have been passively seeing someone who is much older than me.
I like them as a person, and their professional interest align with mine very well.
This is essentially golddigging first, relationship second.
My main thoughts are, that I don't really mind age,and if I could somehow inherit a full time savings and earnings of a successful business owner, in just a few years, I would largely be set.
One time, she discussed marriage, as she would want me to be comfortable even when her heart will some day give in, as she dropped the bomb about having a heard condition a little while back.
Is it worth it? I personally feel like it very much is.
>>18074576
Do you actually like her or just pretend for thge money alone?
If truly the former, go for it. Age is just a number, and the financial side effects do not make it immoral. But do not pretend.
As well: Are you prepared to care for her for 2-3 years though? If she actually dies, you most likely will have to, especially if you wanna stay in the "contract".
>>18074658
I guess.
It is mostly money first, to be honest. But I've grown to like them.
They live really far away however, so I am also very intimidated when it comes to visiting.