>want a gf >spend most of my time shitposting, watching

In your current frame of mind nope. It's worse for you AND whoever you meet if you hook up with someone because she WILL get tired of you or vice versa and you will break up.

Of course! When there is time, there is always potential for change. It takes effort and some time though. Make your body physically appealing (fit, hygienic, style), keep your mind sharp and educated, and develop behaviour that denotes an appealing personality. All of these factors will differ depending on your core self and the k8nd of man you'd like to be, as well as the type of relationship you'd like to have with someone. If you'd rather have a shy girl who stays indoors and reads with you, you're going to want to bait your trap differently than if you want a snowboarding instructor who's into threesomes.

>>18071993
This. Anything is possible. All it takes is dedication and panache.
Being a nerdy fatass myself, I'm establishing a potential relationship with an 9/10 q t 3.14.
Protip - being a shoulder to cry on gets you a long way.

>>18071979
>looking at porn
Stop looking at porn, you're just filling a void in your life instead of doing things that will get you a gf.

>>18071979
>>want a gf

Stop thinking that an external "solution" to your ennui will give you satisfaction. You are the problem. You are apathetic about life because you have no purpose, no fire, no goal. Any girl that you are with will soon get bored and lose interest in you. (After all, you lost interest in yourself). All your music, video games, movies, porn was to keep you from being bored with your life.

Your parents have given you all your toys, kept you from being hungry, sheltered you, etc. You were kept in the womb too long.

Try working at a job for a couple years. Try living by yourself. Interact with more people. Be active. Gravitate toward people with spark. Try and find something bigger than yourself.

Try and find your passion—until you do, you are not ready for a relationship.

I'm 18 years old btw

Yeah, sure. You need to have SOMETHING to offer in a relationship, but it can be a lot of different things and many of those aren't the stereotypical "qualities" that people think of. Like being laid back, reliable, honest, loyal and upbeat is a fucking great package of traits to have as a partner, but none of those are so spectacular that you'll feel great about having them (at least, most people take it for granted or think it's default - it's not).

And obviously your own expectations matter. Will you be able to find someone who enjoys your company and falls for you? Most probably, especially if you seek out social situations (or online dating or whatever) where you are more likely to meet someone. Will you score a strikingly pretty girl who is very smart and interesting? Probably not.

>>18072101
Irrelevant and immaterial. The above posts apply to you regardless

>>18071979
Sounds exactly like me and I never had a problem with women..

I mean yeah you need to get some kind of personality but yeah.. I dont like strangers i watch a tonne of youtube spend a lot of time on the chans on a day to day basis and honestly if i focused on that and that alone and forgot about the other ways i am id probably get depressed and self hatey too.

Damn OP you sound like me 3 years ago when I was 18. I've made a lot of positive change since then, including getting an incredible gf, so I'll see what I can offer

First of all, get real hobbies/interests. What it is that you're passionate about matters less than having that passion. It doesn't have to be some cool "Chad" hobby either. Having an internal motivation is what women like to see, it shows that you have drive and self-efficacy. My hobbies aren't cool by any means (studying Eastern language/philosophy/religion), but it impresses people that I've found something I like and work hard at.

Honestly though, the best advice I can offer you is that a gf won't radically change your life. Learning about love and intimacy with another person that you care about deeply is an amazing experience for sure. However, if you aren't leading a life that fulfills and satisfies you pre-gf, you won't be fulfilled and satisfied when you have a gf. Relationships are cool and fun, but can also easily be a massive time sink that don't really develop you as a person. Regardless of what happens in your romantic life or life in general, the one constant you will always have is yourself. Cultivate the seeds of your own joy and self-love and the romantic aspect of your life will fall into place.

>>18071993
>>18072001
This OP. I was like OP 2 years back and I went to GYM and people appreciate me and wanna talk to me more. Used to masturbate liike a lot but now it's like once every 2weeks. I now have no problem talking to girls at my college.