Okay. This sounds like it's not a problem but it kind of

And then she sends me a message asking if I want to go for drinks to get wasted and make "bad decisions" on Saturday because it's her ex's birthday so she wants to get messed up.

Pretty heavily implied it could lead to sex, at the very least she's gonna be super easy and loose and down to hook up. I just don't know what to think. I've always had the problem that unless I'm chasing the girl I lose interest. Really tempted to say no to this girl for some reason. She's not that attractive, but she's like at least a low 7/10 with a cool personality. I just, idk. I hypothetically want to hook up with a 7/10, but I can't help feel less interested than I was when we were just flirting. Also I definitely have some performance anxiety, but I realise I don't have to actually fuck her, we could just mess around.

I don't really have a point, just wanted input.


Pic unrelated, just looks a bit like her (but more attractive than her I think).

Hmm, then again it'll be in public, in a bar or club so there'll be inherently less pressure, and messing around in public a bit is kinda more fun anyway. I dunno, I'm just worried I'm not gonna be into her, but I guess it's less pressure than that booty call mess last time.

Bump, I don't know, I'm just wondering if I'm stupid for passing up the opportunity. I was interested until she asked me out lol.