It’s been 2 months since I ended it with my ex-gf. Ended

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>>18070353
What I think, personally, is that you already posted the answer in your picture.

The shit you listed is not really normal for a GF to do, any girl would really think this is obsessive, manipulative behaviour. The relationship WAS toxic. It seems like she is quite insecure about herself.

My advice is to block her on FB so you don't get reminders of her all the fucking time. You COULD try and just listen to what she has to say when she calls again, there are always two sides to a story. But be sure what you get yourself in.

>>18070353
Cut her out of your life.

Block her on all social media. Delete her number.

She CLEARLY doesn't give a shit about you anymore. She will only hurt you.

>it was toxic
You already know this person is bad for you. Deep down inside under the loneliness you KNOW you need to cut her out of your life.

Cut her out of her life so she loses you forever. You aren't losing her, she's a piece of shit (as you've clearly shown), she's losing you.

Do it.

Cut her out of your life.

Block her on all social media. Delete her number.

She CLEARLY doesn't give a shit about you anymore. She will only hurt you.

>it was toxic
You already know this person is bad for you. Deep down inside under the loneliness you KNOW you need to cut her out of your life.

Cut her out of her life so she loses you forever. You aren't losing her, she's a piece of shit (as you've clearly shown), she's losing you.

Do it.

OP here,

really appreciate the advice guys

Do you guys think that maybe she has worked through some of her insecurities? That perhaps I'm the one that put her in a position that made her do the things which she did? I know she still want's to be with me, and I can't bear the fact that she could be banging some dude at this very moment.

There's always someone who let's the other one do things to himself.
You seem to be the victim but maybe something in yourself is in search of this kind of behaviour.
Maybe deep inside a part of you wants to be treated like a worthless being. Maybe this is an adaptation stemming from childhood.

Having already had this experience, my advices are as follows:
Try to stay away as far as possible from your girlfriend. Right now you are addicted to her and stalking her on fb doesn't help you getting rid of this addiction. If you don't start now you'll actualize your addiction.
Clear your mind about what you want in life.
You will feel like shit and have self doubts for quite awhile but you should try to endure it. Cause it's not just about her, in this long crappy experience you will feel emotions that you've swallowed down for years. You can look on it as sort of a cleanse. You're cleaning yourself by feeling all these feelings that need to be felt.


In the long run you should think about this part of your personality that may consider itself as being worthless (you feel that someone who does these horrible things to you is "the best chick" you'll ever get with). Find someone who you really trust and talk with this person. And probably search for a Psychotherapist. Trust me, you've got issues.

OP here

Thanks for the advice, actually might be due to some deep seated issues.