I was dating this girl for a couple months and I absolutely love her. I've been in enough relationships before but this girl is literally perfect to me in every way. She doesn't want a relationship anymore though. She went through a really rocky break up before we started dating and she feels like she's not in the right mindset to be with me. I respect her decision, but it really fucking hurts. We're still best friends but it sucks because we still have these feelings for each other. I want to be with her more than anyone, but it's not good for her right now. I don't know what to do.
>>18067650
how do you know she likes you back?
im not doubting you or anything, it's just that it's important to be sure
>>18067661
We already confirmed we love each other
>>18067690
sounds like an excuse to get out lol
>I have feelings for u
>but I have issues -> bye
then next month she's with some other dude
You got too attached and she wants out. Sorry m8.
>>18067695
Honestly I would be thinking the same thing, it's definitely happened to me before. She's really different though. I know that's dumb shit people always say when they're in denial, but she's a very honest and open person. If she wanted to get out I'm certain she would've told me.
>>18067710
>I know that's dumb shit people always say when they're in denial.
You're in denial.
>>18067719
Thanks bud
It's cool you're willing to respect her wishes to work on her issues before jumping back into a relationship. It hurts right now and it's confusing. Just know that you're still in her life and she's in yours and you're still friends. Just learn to be the role of her friend first for right now. Support her how never she needs when it comes to the friendship. You'll know if she's just trying to let you go easy.
>>18067650
"right mindset" just means youre not husband type so im not wasting my time.
>>18067650
Don't listen to a word she says. She doesn't want to be with you. Period.
I would understand if you two were just starting out and she still wanted space but she already tried you and didn't like what she got so move on.
>>18068939
I couldn't agree more. Just listen to this anon, OP.