Girl that I thought liked me (couple dates, cuddling at her place,

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2017-02-20 05:26:32 Post No. 18065586
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Anonymous 2017-02-20 05:26:32 Post No. 18065586 [Report]

Girl that I thought liked me (couple dates, cuddling at her place, etc.. no sex yet) dumped me right before valentines day and the week of my birthday. She blocked me. Even though this was one of the shorter relationships I was crazy about her in a way I haven't felt about a girl in a very long time, probably since high school... The other relationships I've had that have ended I dumped them but I was there for them even afterwards if they wanted to talk.

I've never been blocked by a girlfriend. I'm not sure how to get over someone being that un-empathetic. I told her how much it hurt and despite that, no response. She sent a quick message saying she thought I was a nice guy but didnt feel a connection and then blocked me, this is after a couple of days of basically ignored texts. Every site I've gone to says I should just let it go and respect her boundaries and shit like that. Which is fine, but I just can't understand someone being that cold hearted and un-sympathetic, has anyone been in a position like hers and can maybe explain the thought process? Am I wrong for expecting her to want to let me down a bit easier?

Anonymous 2017-02-20 05:53:27 Post No.18065632
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Anonymous 2017-02-20 05:53:27 Post No.18065632 [Report]

Eyo OP, I actually got dumped around this time of year 2 years ago from a short, intense relationship as well! Although, mine was more sexual in nature.

I still don't know exactly why she dumped me so suddenly, and over messaging no less. It hurt pretty bad, but the pain was made worse by the fact that we didn't block eachother quick enough. I was the one being dumped, so I obviously was reluctant to pull the plug, but she wasn't willing to pull it either and I wound up bothering her and spreading out the hurt and just wasting my time. The fact that your girl broke up with you so swiftly will likely be better for you in the long run m8. Perhaps she had enough breakup experience to know that you need to block the person in order to heal quicker, and saved you the trouble.

As for why she broke up with you in the first place? Sometimes you think you want a relationship, and here comes someone who likes you and you think "I wanna give this a shot", and then after a while you realize you just don't match eachother's mentalities/beliefs/intelligences/whatever, and the attraction dies. That happened to me, with me being the one dumping the girl (a different girl from before). We weren't a good fit and I realize now that I should have been a bit less gungho about dating someone who was attracted to me, when I wasn't necessarily attracted to them in the same amount.

Anonymous 2017-02-20 06:06:09 Post No.18065648
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Anonymous 2017-02-20 06:06:09 Post No.18065648 [Report]

For some reason the thought of it really being that much of a casual thing for her is immensely helpful. Maybe this just meant nothing to her. I've been there too I guess. Cheers

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