Just another autist with girl problems posting here.
So the girl I had been talking to for a while (much longer than it should've been without any attempt made to meet) had become very dry with me last month, alongside no longer interacting with my social media posts. I took the hint and just left it but was I wrong in doing so?
We were out last night with a group of mutual friends and it was the first time we'd seen each other in person since November and we both kinda just acted how we would've before we started talking. We went to a nightclub and she never left the group (just me and 5 girls) to talk to any other guys or that and now I'm wondering if I should've maybe just taken her aside to talk about everything. Was I right not to have bothered?
She is a rather shy person so I'm not sure that even if she wanted to she'd make any advances, but I don't think she realises I'm also very introverted. I really do like this girl but I think I've just made such a mess of it that there's not much I can do to recover at this point, so if you have any suggestions it'd be appreciated!
>>18064181
well, you are i a cram anon. Could you let this girl go and talk to others. I actually think that you are under 18 but no worries. How much do you like this girl?
>>18064197
She was staying with the group by her own choice, I'd have had no problem if she had chose to go and try pull anyone in the club cause I'd pretty much ruled out my chances with her by this point, but seeing her in person made me think about it again. I'm 21 but my experience with girls in the past had been severely affected by the fact I had little to no confidence and I've only really overcame that in the past few months. And I'm not sure, in short I've not felt like this about another person, but it just strikes me as being a case of the infamous oneitis and maybe getting over it would be better for me in the long run. I'm just confused lol
>>18064214
Ok
Anon
Do this for me. My name is Ludwig and I live in Malmö, sweden. Just snap/text her and say hi. Then see how it goes a long
try to be the man you want to be