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What are your thoughts on having a "work spouse"?
For those unfamiliar with the term it's someone of the opposite sex at work that you share pretty deep and personal stuff. I've been doing that with someone for a while now and while it makes work a lot easier and bearable to have someone you can open up to it's also a little scary because in the event of a "break-up" it would make for some serious shitty days at work. Plus the possibility of having very personal stuff about you exposed to other colleagues as a result. There's also that constant need to keep your more primal urges in check because although I do find her attractive I wouldn't want a romantic relationship with her. Both because she's getting married this year and I would never want to mess things up for her and also because I don't think we'd be good as a couple. But I do get a guilty pleasure when we reveal intimate stuff with each other, we even asked each other how it feels to have a bigger cock inside you or a tighter vagina and I could tell she liked going there as well. Her soon to be husband also works there and I don't know how he feels about it. I have told him straight up that I enjoy talking to her a lot and he's even given me a ride home twice now but both times it was her idea and not his.
I've tried connecting to him more and he had some attempts as well but I don't think we're friends material. We talk now and then but we disagree on a lot of things. And while he puts on a brave face I don't know if he's comfortable with me talking to his girl so much.
So yeah I think I went on a little long and rambly
I have one of these and it ain't too bad
Is this like the millennial word for a "good friend"
Are your brains just fucked?