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tl;df-First time dating a man, what do?
I'm a bi woman dating a man for the first time. I've already had first contact, but I wouldn't consider it a date or something so formal, and had a lot of fun. Toward the end of that, I asked him if he'd like to grab dinner some time, and he seemed down. What should I know about the differences between dating chicks and dudes? With women I'm usually the aggressor, and kind of also the top.
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>>18063173
Well there's not much to know. I mean, some guys might not like you taking charge but most won't mind and some might enjoy it for a change. Does he know about your previously pretty lesbian past?
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Just treat him like anyone else. If you are looking for a relationship, then being someone else will only work for a little bit. Just act like you do with women or whatever is comfortable with men for you and if he does not like it, then you are not a match. Basic as that.
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>>18063185
You idiots realize that this is bait right?
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>>18063173
Treat the first date like meeting a new friend. Keep romance/sex on the back burner - just enjoy each other as people. (If romance/sex wants to come to the fore, it will let you know without your prompting)
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>>18063187
or I'm legit curious what the differences are...
>>18063183
Not yet. Do guys tend to be worried about previous girls?
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>>18063202
In most cases, they'll find the fact that you were with girls in the past hot and it will turn them on more likely than not.
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