Why do girls sometimes look visibly attracted to me and sometimes treat me like I'm dirt?
They told me I'm good looking on /soc/ but I just don't know sometimes, how can I not lose confidence when women who are supposed to interact with me, like in a shop, act as if my very presence offended them?
>>18060231
Well I've been told I'm good looking by some , yet others may not like my looks.If a woman likes your looks that's awesome, but if she don't just think to yourself "Go Fuck yourself". In a way you'll really dont get bothered by it. You know people find attractive and that's all that counts . Fuck the rest anon . All people have a preference
>>18060231
work on your body language
You're not very good at marketing yourself.
The deal is that you get to have sex with her if you provide x other things she wants.
You need to show her that you have what she wants.
A man who doesn't market himslef = probably a really shitty man
It´s not your looks, it´s most likely how you handle yourself, your personality, your smile, the way you look at people, the vibe you give off.
Girls treat ugly guys just fine, they may not drop to their knee´s immediately, but they don´t often treat a guy like dirty based purely on looks.
Treating a guy like dirt i´d say is based on their first thoughts, you may be standing oddly, too cocky.
Loosen up a bit, play it chill, laid back, not giving a shit, don´t think too hard
>>18060231
Not every person will like you. Some will, some won't. Just because you still face rejection doesn't mean you are a horrible mess. Sometimes they will have their own shit to deal with, and they won't even want to talk or anything. It's not always about you.
On the other hand, dude, the chick selling you tomatoes doesn't have to flirt with you. Work on your expectations.
Get BIG.
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>>18060262
I don't think I can control it. Though the days when I'm in a good mood and are when I notice most girls seem attracted to me.
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>>18060267
Well it can hardly be called rejection as I just want to buy the fucking tomatoes without the cashier making some weird grimace.
>>18060312
I was just visiting the gym
maybe you just look like an asshole
smile more?