>Start seeing this chick a few months ago >We click really

>>18059904
Don't pussy out. Just move on dude. You'd become a cuck if you message her.

>>18059904

>She keeps saying I make her feel funny and that I keep making her like me more and more as we keep talking and that she still likes me a lot
>She decides it's best to not talk to me any more and we haven't spoken in weeks

>says one phrase
>contradicts it immediately

Yeah, move on. She ain't worth it, you've only put in a few months' time and she wants to waste it on getting back together with her ex, and you're just the convenient rebound. Move on.

>>18059967
Damn, yeah this is what I needed to hear. Can't reduce myself to a cuck

>>18060088
enjoy regretting the shit out of this in 10 years.

>>18060174
What do you mean? I should contact her?

>>18060185
if you really like her then don't throw it away for the sake of "not being le cuck".

you're saying you don't like feeling like you have to win over your girlfriend. that's just a reality of life my friend. unless you stay vigilant, they will always start to wander. just like if a girl put on 100 lbs and became less attractive, a man will be perceived as less attractive if he loses his confidence, masculinity, etc.

if your standard for a relationship is that you don't have to try and she's going to love you unconditionally, you're going to be lonely for a very long time.

>>18060212
I get what you're saying. How the hell do I start a conversation with her now though?

>>18060225

"Hey"

let her feel like she had to work to make it happen. and in general make her feel like she has to work to keep you.

>>18060242
How do you make her feel like she had to work to make it happen in the first place?

>>18059904
You decided to lie to her about how you feel about her to help you move on. I don't see how that works, but whatever. So why don't you move the fuck on?

If you really miss her and want to give it another shot, then call her up and talk to her about that. I don't see how the lying helped you here.

I don't understand why so many people here are such lame pieces of shit they can't just open their fucking mouths and say what they have to say. It's like honest, clear communication is some sort of poison that must be avoided at all costs.

>>18060225
>How the hell do I start a conversation with her now though?

Oh right, contacting her and saying "hey, can we talk?" is difficult. You have to come up with a clever lie that will fix everything and make it all perfect, right?

I don't understand how people like you function.

>>18060246
At the time I didn't feel quite as strongly as I do now. Maybe it was anger that was clouding my feelings. Maybe now it's just a case of wanting what I can't have, I'm not sure.