I am 26 and still in college. Is there hope for me to get a good looking girlfriend?
I'm a 25 yr old manual labourer and I have a hot girlfriend
What could those two things possibly have to do with one another?
>>18049618
It's gonna be almost ten years and I can't finish (I'm lazy). So when I talk with a girl I like, I don't feel like the appropriate answer to the question 'what do you do?' is 'I've been trying to finish college for almost ten years.'.
>>18049640
You're a fucking idiot. Just say "I go to college, do x, and mainly spend my weekends doing x. I'll be getting a job after I finish college."
>>18049640
then dont say that doofus
"what do you do?"
>I go to college, work a side job, go to the park, whatever
people take a lot of paths in life
I took a long time to finish too, but I was only embarassed by it when I allowed myself to be. own it, it's ok.
>>18049615
Bullshit
Not enough information.
Tentative answer: it depends.
>>18049656
>own it, it's ok.
I try to do this most of the time. I just feel like they'll be dissapointed when they find out. Like of course I don't tell them outright I've been that long, but it doesn't take long (usually the very next question) before they ask 'for how long?' I think another reason for my being embarassed by this is that I usually talk with plenty of much younger girls (20-22) that are at my level.
>>18049672
What other information you need?
>>18049700
JUST TELL THE BITCHES YOU ARE TRYING TO GET A PHD
FUCK
Im 26 and about to finish college, put off the gf thing because I was too embarrassed as well. I work part time and school full time, so Im not a complete waste of life. I work out at night, so I can stay in shape and my body is good.
I dont know what degree you're getting but I do CS and college isn't that hard. Do what I do map out the amount of time you can reasonably expect to graduate and stick to it.
The way I did it was shut off outside noise. I put down the video games, the pot, the drinking, and I tend to over do it with golf/skiing, so I slowed those down.
Reward yourself for meeting your goals too. Break it down piece by piece.
I want a gf too, but I know after I finish I have a decent job hopefully I'll get a gf. I'll literally take any girl who isn't too fat. Let's face it, at 26 just starting a career, Im no fucking prize. That's just me being honest with myself.