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Hey /adv/, bit of a long-winded question because I'm scatterbrained

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Hey /adv/, bit of a long-winded question because I'm scatterbrained right now and don't know how to put it all into words.

I'd broken up with my girlfriend of 3 years about 7 months ago and managed to hop basically into a new thing with a girl I work with, which was great, sex was great, she was great, etc. Thing is now I'm totally bored of it and she's more into me than I am for her. And there is yet another girl that I tend to hit off with very well and I could see us being really great together. My issue is, am I just all about the chase? And is that a bad thing? Should I even bother ending it or pursuing this new girl? I feel like hopping from chick to chick is bad since I seem to just get bored, despite the fact that they seem so enticing at first. Thoughts?
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>>18049196
you are bored and probably inmature in relationships so it seems... but hell here it goes, why are you bored with your current girl? why mention your ex?
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Get what you can out of her, then step back into the game with a little more experience. Males can't go wrong with more experience, the master key is real.
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OP here, was at work and you're probably gone but might as well keep the thread up. As for why I'm bored I guess its my own fault, I didn't see much in her from the outset besides looks and that we had a few things in common. I was really just looking for a rebound and I guess I got that. She's a sweetheart but the differences that we DO have sort of turn me off and we don't gel particularly well. (She's sort of awkward in an endearing way but it gets sort of old). As for mentioning my ex, I'd gone through the same thing with her, getting bored that is, but that took three and a half years so that's more understandable. I'm just sort of worried that I'll perpetually be bored of chicks and never find one I want to commit to.
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>>18049362
See, part of me thought about this, which isn't a bad idea really. I guess my conscience sort of gets in the way. I don't wanna be a total asshole and just hit and quit, although that's a really moralfag way of thinking so I may just say fuck it and do whatever, since I'm in the position to do so.
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>>18050487
Just keep doing it, eventually you might end up alone or find a girl you don't get bored of. If this persists I would look into internal issues
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>>18050454
just leave her. It might break her heart and that will make you feel like shit, but its better for both of you in the long run.
to be perfectly frank you do sound like a little bit of a douche though. That being said, there really isnt anything inherently wrong with just being into the chase and "hit and quit", just dont lead the girl on.
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>>18050580
OP again, yeah I feel you. I fully know I'm being an ass, hell, I sort of sewed the seeds while I was with my ex, to get with this girl. So I know I've done some less than stellar things to get here. I just know what its like to be lovestruck, and I was with my ex of three years in the beginning. I want that again. Maybe this new girl could be that, but I won't know until I'm with her
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