Hey /adv/, I need your help, I've been friend with this

I had the same thing and I was straight up with him - told him I'd caught the feels and asked him on a date. The date happened, it all went well and now we're very happy.

It's hard and I was so nervous. He could have easily turned me down or refused on the basis that we were friends. Luckily for me, he'd liked me from the beginning so it worked. But you'll never know unless you're open with him. Don't play games, don't be vague (I tried dropping hints for a year and he just never got it).

Just know that it may be different afterwards if he refuses.

Good luck anon.

>>18048693
>Just know that it may be different afterwards if he refuses.
That's my biggest fear, the main reason why i'm hesitant about it.

One thing that i've omitted in OP is, I had a crush on him before we started being friends, I used to stalk him on social media, and after we become friends this crush turned into actual feelings, everytime i'm around him I act goofy and something in my head tells me that he is aware of my feelings and just plain ignore it.

Uhh, since the thread is pretty much dead I think, I'll follow FP suggestion and just ask him out on a date, hope everything turns out good.

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>>18048782
I'm rooting for you.

>>18048819
Thank you, maybe I come back to post how it went if I still do it today.

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>>18048830
Maybe you should do it posthaste, else you caught up in an overthinking spiral that ultimately leads to you somehow rationalising to yourself that nothing but failure will come out of it. Or maybe you're not like that and I'm just projecting. Oh well.

>>18048835
You're not projecting at all, I'll call him later, confess and set up the date, hope I don't spaghetti all over him.

If you drop all the hints and act different and all that and he notices it but ignores it, he isn't interested.

>>18048846
I wish you luck.

Update guys, I called him few minutes back and this is how it went.

>Me: Hi anon
>Him: Hey there.
>Me: Do you have any plans for friday night?
>Him: Nothing that I couldn't change, what do you have in mind?
>Me: Well... maybe we could go on a date, what do you think?
>Him: Whoa, wasn't expecting for this, but sounds good, i'm in.
This is when I got nervous
>Me:R-really?!
>Him:Yeah, why not?! I'm not seeing anybody at the moment and always thought that you're cute and interesting, you shouldn't be surprised at all.
>Me:T-thanks anon, I'll call you later to confirm the details, bye.
>Him: Bye.

I felt like finishing the call soon because I had to process everything, i'm in heaven right now, when I calm down i'll call him again, i'm saving the confession for the date night because I thought that would be a better moment to do it, thanks a lot /adv/, hope the date goes well too.

>>18049716
Good job, anon. You went out on a limb and it worked out okay. Good luck on your date!

>>18049728
Thank you! Now my only job is to stay alive until the date night haha.