TL;DR I feel insulted and ashamed, my repaired self-confidence

>>18048564
Wait.

.....what?

>>18048564

Don't take that so personal, she likely didn't mean to insult you by that but it is an understandable question to have. She probably meant it to be a compliment as much as she could.

Just keep on your path, if she's interested in you and you in her despite the comment then keep on at it. Your reaction is unwarranted, though if it makes you feel better then maybe you should find a way to rationally and calmly express to her how it made you feel.

>>18048575
I don't even know why I took it so badly. I just felt a tsunami of shame wash through me.

You are probably right it was an unwarranted reaction though now I feel like I have made a fool of myself twice.

>>18048588

We all make fools of ourselves sometimes.

Take inventory of how much progress you've made and give yourself some credit. That's worth more than being ashamed of something you aren't anymore. That shame you felt for that old you, that was the new you trying to get out. Don't let that guy down, because he wanted whats best for you and allowed you to feel bad about the habits that you knew were killing you.

There's no longer any reason to feel bad. Take pride, and stay your path.

>>18048564
People don't see the word "virgin" with negativity, she simply said that it is easy to appreciate you.

"It is strange that someone positive and beautiful like you never had sex, maybe you didn't want to"
The word Virgin simply means "not had sex" for any human that is not as retarded as you are.

The offensive opposite question, which I will make now is "How could you have sex with somoene if you get upset that easily"

The answer is easy:
People are easy to appreciate, who doesn't have sex simply doesn't talk to others that much.

>>18048598
Well I concur that my reaction was probably fucking stupid and I'm a retard, but it's not like I "chose" to be ashamed at it. It was an involuntary reaction. My autonomous nervous system just decided to send a jolt of shame through me.

>People are easy to appreciate, who doesn't have sex simply doesn't talk to others that much.
I am not sure I follow you. There a lot of people, me included, who can talk to people and have friends, but can rarely advance to the stage of fucking.

That being said, I should probably apologize for my reaction.

>>18048598
>People don't see the word "virgin" with negativity
Differentfag here
I find this hard to believe. In today's society it's abnormal to be a virgin, especially for men. Many see you as a lesser man for it, which is kind of true. Who wants a man who is so abnormal he can't even get laid? It's best to hide it and live with the abnormality while trying.

>>18048621
Well, what people define as "having female friends" and "talking" make very little sense.

Who is too scared or doesn't have the humility to admit to a female friend something on the line "I like you and I am too weak to keep talking to you as a friend, please re-consider dating me or accept that I would feel better trying to get over it by stopping talking to you completely"
Who is too scared of this and doesn't want to get hurt is simply unable of proper reasoning and whether they want or not they are being egoicentric.

So you are being egocentric, keeping every emotion for yourself, communicating nothing, your friendship has no meaning as there is no corrispondance.

They do not have friends, they have simple psychological disorders.

>>18048779
>They do not have friends, they have simple psychological disorders.

What disorder is so insidious? Social anxiety?

>>18048682
>Anonymous 02/14/17(Tue)12:51:03 No.18
KEK.
Dude, if you don't want to see cult movies with sex scenes, with a more understanding of sexuality than mainstream porn, you just need to kiss someone that kiss good and copy it, being this a girl or a man.

It's fun how everything turns down to understanding and how everyone tries to justify themselves with social contexts.

If you don't stick up with intelligent people and ask them out, it's your fault for thinking your context of retarded high schools or shitty university fields being everything in the world.

>>18048787
Everyone will have a little of a disorder.
The definition of disorder is often related to the incapacity to do this or other things, what I really said is a complete "social incapacity" comes either from a psychological disorder or a lack something biological.
Experience have little to do with it, as you can build it any time in any way, even just by asking someone around you.

A mixture of lack of understanding, experience, obsessive thoughts

>>18048779
What if I don't have female friends I want to date? I mean, let's say there's this girl in my uni class whom I like but I don't think she likes me anymore (used to seem attracted to me but now doesn't) and it's not really a friend as I don't really know her. What is more, I asked out a different girl in that class and she rejected me.

I don't even know how to get to know that girl (even if I wanted to ask her out) as she doesn't seem to want to talk to me.