I had an intense 3 month relationship with a very sexy girl whose interests were so similar to mine I considered her my soul mate. She went from wanting to live together and marriage to finding ways to antagonize me until she could dump me.
She got rid of me on Friday and by squinting at her snapchat stories (I don't want to give her attention) I can tell she's already sleeping with some dude.
It's a tale as old as time. How should I feel about this? How can I accept a short term relationship for what it is? At least it happened, I could've been single all this time. Not sure I'm ready to move on to someone else already, this separation wasn't my idea.
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>3 month relationship
>I considered her my soul mate
>she's already sleeping with some dude.
>How should I feel about this?
Like you dodged a fucking bullet.
Thank god it wasn't 6 years down the line.
it's a lesson that we all have to learn. next time, don't get attached.
You're not supposed to date one woman at a time. Do you think women forget about other dudes because of one in particular? That's what Disney wants you to believe.
Hey anon. That's rough. I can imagine you feel like crap. I know from experience that you should feel what you already feel and not be ashamed about it. How do you feel? Confused? Angry? Sad? All of the above? How you feel matters and there's no right or wrong way to feel. It's how you choose to express your feelings that matters. Don't ever think for a second your feelings are stupid and don't matter. And you know what, if you aren't ready to move forward and date somebody else, that's ok. Take as much time as you need. There's no need to rush things. You've just lost someone very precious to you, you've lost what you thought was real and true. That's no easy thing. I understand that. I have too. Just know that it's not all your fault. Don't get bogged down in the trap of blaming yourself and beating yourself up. Keep your head up anon and keep putting one foot in front of the other, doing what you need to do for yourself.
You know dude, you'll find good women later. It's ok to grieve a strong connection with someone. It'll pass