I don't want to breastfeed my baby. I think it is degrading and ir could ruin my tits.
Am I a bad mother? What are some options besides formula?
Yes
Can you suck your own dick?
This has got to be the shittiest troll thread.
>>18044940
Haven't you been looking at the other threads on /adv/ the past few minutes?
Yes of course you're a bad mother for prioritizing your appearance over the welfare of your child. Aside from formula and your own breast milk, you can give your child the breast milk of other women.
>>18044901
>Am I a bad mother?
In this context, yes.
Get stupid societal conditioning out of your head. Breastfeeding is why you have tits in the first place. It is not degrading - it is biologically mandatory.
In terms of alternative options, you can look at wet nurses. But breastfeeding can naturally be some major bonding time for mother and baby (and further, a lot of biological processes happening too). You will be missing out on this.
If you're that concerned about your boobs, get a boob job after you're done having kids.
Seriously though. Breastfeed your kids.
>>18044901
Up to about 200 years ago women like you paid a poor woman with a new baby to wet-nurse theirs. Perhaps you can find a poor immigrant woman to exploit.
Even medical science is revealing that, while breastfeeding IS the best option, you're not really fucking your kid over that much if you don't.
Do what works for you and don't let these fuckers shame you for it.
It does seem shallow on the surface, but women give up a lot to become moms. Do you.
Just use the pump and get your milk in a bottle
But for real get breast milk in your kid
It's natural and important and if you don't your a bad mother
>>18044901
Hey anon. It's actually scientifically proven that breast milk is the best option for your baby as each mother's breast milk is uniquely oriented to fit your baby's needs...so much so that if your baby is sick, your body just knows and changes the make-up of your breast milk so your baby has more nutrients to get better. That being said, breast feeding won't ruin your breasts. That's a myth and it's not degrading. That's also a myth perpetuated by our society. The choice is yours though anon.
Is bad mothering the troll theme of the day?