Ladies, do you ever listen to music you associate with your ex? Does it make you miss them or do you associate new feelings with it?
>>18044521
I had severe issues with this cuz i love listening to music and some songs just got tainted with the thoughts associated with them. I had to stop listening to a lot of songs in the process of moving on from a girl. After you've truly moved on, you can listen to them, but there's still gonna be a thought, not an harmful one though.
>>18044550
Oops, may or may not have failed to read "Ladies"
>>18044550
My XBF (who's now my BFF because life is funny like that) used to have Jeff Buckley's 'Grace' playing in the background during sexy-times. For years I couldn't listen to the album at all for this very reason. Although I recently found myself listening to 'Last Goodbye' because of a break up.
I also dated a guy who lent me his copy of 'Wave of Mutilation: Best of the Pixies' but I kept listening to that even after we broke up.
>>18044550
Well I noticed that an ex of mine had a song she associates with me pretty high up on her youtube favorites list. Now I've had suspicion that she may still have feelings for me for a while but I'm feeling like her having that song that high up (within the last couple years at least) along with a couple songs after that about dearly missing former lovers pretty much confirms my suspicion.
I don't have any exes lol
>>18044521
I hate songs that remind me of my exes so i actually avoid listening to them
>>18044550
This is pretty accurate, after I'm over it completely I can listen to that song and not really remember or care, but I have a pretty bad memory so I usually forget why I stopped listening to it in the first place
>>18044572
Dont let it anon. Whats done is done.
I don't enjoy anything music or otherwise because it makes me think of happy people having fun together enjoying it, something I can't experience
>>18044605
Why not? We still keep up with each other and she asked to come and see me at the bar I work at a couple weeks ago.
Even then confessing my feelings will at least allow me to get them off my chest even though I'm pretty sure I'm right.
>>18044521
yes